A lot of my perspective is based in my upbringing as a Muslim. I identify more with a convert experience due to my mother converting to Islam when I was just a "wee little one". We went through a lot of transformations together, still going through them; as that's real life.

I was taught that you cannot tell someone whether or not they're Muslim, it's up to Allah to really determine what's genuine in someone's heart. So I was told. However, for some reason, at some point...it felt like the more holy I got, the more judgy I came off. I also gravitated towards some really good people overall, but when it came to certain sins, they were more judgy than others. I would say that's from a lack of life experience, considering I have now experienced both sides of the coin. I wasn't going around and condemning people to Hell per se, but I definitely felt like some people were just messy AF! (I'm laughing right now as I write this, because I'm sure that's how some people see me now!)

I was also taught that whatever you judge someone for, you'll go through those very same trials you judged so and so forth.